We are told that we cannot truly love others until we learn to love ourselves. What does it mean to love oneself? Does it mean we should be vain and preen ourselves until we look as physically attractive to others as possible? Does it mean we should be proud of our achievements and boast about … Continue reading Self Love
Judgement
Imagine if we were so clumsy one day that after spilling our morning coffee, dropping our keys down a drain then breaking a delicate ornament with our heavy touch, we were so cross with ourselves we decided to do something drastic...we decided to cut off the offending hand. How likely is it that we would … Continue reading Judgement
Significant insignificance
Winter solstice this year saw the great conjunction of Saturn and Jupiter. This close alignment had not occurred since 1623 and with the close proximity of Christmas, it was named by many as the Christmas Star, similar to the one which many believe guided the three wise men to the baby Jesus, two thousand and … Continue reading Significant insignificance
Beginner Vs Expert
We are all beginners at some point in our lives, just as we are all experts at certain things, things we have practiced countless times until we have become proficient. We may feel clumsy, as a beginner. We may find the path difficult and feel the urge to give up and often we do not … Continue reading Beginner Vs Expert
Interpretation
The human language can be incredibly complicated. An apt example at this wintery time of year is the oral concept of snow. It is understood the Inuits have over 50 words for arctic conditions, and the Russians have 70. The Scots are said to have over 400! If you read the word saw, what would … Continue reading Interpretation
Imagination
What greater gift has been bestowed on humans than imagination? We have health, legs to walk, hands to hold, ears to hear, eyes to behold, but any of that can be taken away, at any time, and for some, we never have that. But imagination...even if we have no legs, we can travel anywhere in … Continue reading Imagination
Difficult path
It is easy to love those whom you like, who make you happy and are caring and warm. Opening your heart to love those whom you dislike, this is not easy. Perhaps you feel someone is dishonest and twists the truth so that you are cast in a bad light. It is easy to grow … Continue reading Difficult path
The Search
When we are little, we learn about growing up and long for it to rush upon us. Toddlers wear the big shoes of their parents, young girls watch with awe while their mothers apply makeup, young boys watch their fathers as they shave. It appears a compliment to be told ‘you’re so grown up’. Teenagers … Continue reading The Search
Momentary State
Why do we exist? What is the nature of man, of the universe, or existence itself? Is there a God? Why is there evil in the world? What is Free Will? What constitutes Determinism? From whence does the collective consciousness issue? Are we reincarnated? Do we have a soul? Is there any meaning to this … Continue reading Momentary State
Appreciation
What is your normal habit when having a meal? At breakfast, do you eat with your family and discuss the day, or read a newspaper? At lunch do you chat with colleagues or stay at your desk working while you eat? In the evening do you visit a restaurant with friends or watch TV with … Continue reading Appreciation
Zen musings 